Parenting

from a Place of Calm and Clarity

No parent starts off knowing what to do...

Everything we give our children we have inside of us, whether we know it or not. So if we are filled with anger or frustration, shame or regret this is what we pass on. Until we take part in radical self reflection, and heal from the inside out, we will unknowingly pass on our pain.

If our happiness is the greatest gift we can give our children, that puts the responsibility of self care at the top of our list. When we prioritize our needs we in turn can freely give ourselves to our children.

When we change, our children's behavior changes. Without exception!

Clarity

Minimize confusion and conflicts by learning how to communicate clearly

Healing

Experiencing inner peace allows us to offer that to our children

Confidence

Parenting becomes easier when we gain the skills to govern our families

It’s Never Too Late
Hope is Here

No matter what your relationship with your child(ren) looks like right now, there is hope.

Depending on where things are at, it can be hard to believe there is truly another way. But I promise you there is.

None of us start off as parents knowing what to do. We create plans, try to be the people we want to be and watch as our idealistic imaginings get run over by the reality of daily life and the immense pressures of caring for our kids.

Hope is here, it is that powerful force that helps us become better versions of ourselves.

Hi! I’m Heather

I became a parenting coach because who I imagined myself to be as a parent was not the reality of how I was parenting.

I think a lot of us believe that because we are good people that means we will be good parents, I’ve come to realize most likely we end up parenting the way we were parented. Without conscious effort and looking directly into the mirror we lose our choice in how we govern, and fall into conditioned patterns.

This work has not only created a bond and connection with my son I never had before but it has created peace and clarity inside myself I didn’t know I was lacking.

The hardships of parenting can be dramatically reduced when we start the journey of healing. Healing creates safety in our lives which builds a foundation that allows us to weather any hardship life has to offer.

Who we imagine ourselves to be as parents is possible. The healing journey will get us there.

The traditional

‘power-over’ model of parenting isn’t working.

It makes you feel like you’re not doing a good job.

But that's not the truth. I believe that the real issue is that we’re not taught how to be the kind of parents most of us long to be so we end up slipping into the patterns that were ingrained in us in our own childhoods.

Which is why when you contact me, you will be met with understanding, a non-judgemental openness and a supportive, personalized, effective plan that I will personally guide you through every step of the way.

How It Works:

When you book a call with me, we’ll sit down together and talk so I can get a sense of what’s going on for you and your family and where I can offer support.

I’ll explain my approach and the options we have for working together. You can ask any questions you have and see what type of support would be the best fit for your life and schedule.

If it feels right to you, we can book our first session and get started. If it’s not a good fit, I will do my best to offer alternative resources or suggestions for support, wherever possible. There’s no pressure of any kind, simply an opportunity to see if we are a good fit to work together.